There is something wrong with thong underwear glaring out of the top of a pair of jeans. Maybe it is sexy on the few girls who have killer bodies that scream for attention, but that doesn't make it right to bare all in public for the sake of whistles and bug-eyed males. Thongs are meant to enhance, to be sure, the body that is fit for such clothing. But enhance obviously takes on a whole different meaning in today's dictionary of society.
When is too Little too Much?
Fat rolls may be sexy for certain people. After all, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and I confess to not having that perfect “Barbie doll” figure myself. But at least the extra body weight I do have remains respectfully covered for my own sense of decency rather than a source for public gags, and that can be taken two ways if you get my drift. It is disturbing no matter whether you have a body to be proud of at any weight. Admittedly, too-thin women have no more reason to flaunt their thongs than overweight women. Exposed fat rolls create an unwanted attention to a body already struggling for a comfort zone, whether it's a physical or a mental struggle. It's like yelling at people to find more fault when too little shows too much.
Sexy is as Sexy Does
Yes, bigger bodies may very well be sexy in their own right. But there is something to be said about dressing to enhance your look regardless of your size. If you want to be seen as sexy, you should dress to play up your best features, your best assets, your best color combinations, and your comfort level in your clothing choices. You can't force people to think of you as sexy just because you allow a thong to hang out of your jeans. This is where a sexy thong could very well be just a gagging wrong.
Beauty Begins on the Inside
The old saying about beauty beginning on the inside of a person holds a lot of weight. Even a person who might first be thought of as beautiful can become ugly quickly with the wrong attitude. You aren't beautiful overall just because you dress in certain clothing. Beauty can make a person glow from the inside out. It is seen in the aura around that person. They draw people to them and create a feeling of comfort with their personalities and their inner charm.
Dressing for Success
Dressing just to gain acceptance is never the right path to follow. Success lies in much more than just the clothes a person buys and wears. It's not in the designer who created that line of clothing or the store that sold the clothes. It's not in the price tag. Dressing for acceptance also means dressing to enhance your personality, your inner beauty, and dressing for the occasion.
