Imagine your heart craves for your mate. You are waiting so badly for your mate. Your teeth ache. Your breasts tingle. Just you can't wait. Imagine your feeling that way-tonight!
Take the phone off the hook. Lock the door. Put some romantic music. And share an herbal aphrodisiac. Show your mate ecstasy.
Think about how you and your partner have a beautiful relationship. Then have some fun. Here are some ways.
Recapture your senses
You can recapture your “swept away” feeling with the help of herbal potions, oils and teas. If you are approaching menopause, you may have vaginal dryness or vaginal infections. Your depression or anxiety may put a damper on sexual relations.
Your inhibited sexual desire, or lack of libido, may be rooted in unresolved psychological issues that need attention. But if you have worked through all of the medical and psychological factors and still yearn for more sexual intimacy, surely botanicals can help you.
Breathe sensual aroma
Set the stage for passion by scenting your bedroom with a few potent droplets of sandalwood, rose or amber essential oil. Sandalwood has been a traditional aphrodisiac which can make you feel centered in your body, awakening your physical sensation. Rose and amber have always association with love and sensuality.
Add a few droplets of your chosen essential oil to a diffuser ring, an inexpensive aromatherapy device that sits over a light bulb and relies on the bulb's heat to release an inviting fragrance creating a passionate atmosphere.
Massage to new heights
Massage before love making. Add a few drops of the above essential oils to scent a massage oil and bring new sensual dimensions to a full body massage. Massage each other from head to foot, concentrating first on relaxation by working on tense spots such as upper back, then let your touch become slower, more and more caressing, and even arousing. Don't forget to include the erogenous zones like the backs of the knees and the inner thighs.
Sip a sex tea
Aphrodisiac teas like damiana can lower your anxiety and open the door to sensuous expression. Damiana tincture is also available in health food stores. Try just 20 to 30 drops in ¼ cup of warm water about an hour in advance to boost your passion for a sex encounter.
Herbal stimulants that get blood circulation flowing enhance sexual passion in women with more blood flow to the pelvis which you will feel more aroused.
Want to try? Just simmer the following herbs in 2 cups of water for 20 minutes: one tablespoon of grated gingerroot, 7 to 10 cloves, 2 cinnamon sticks5 black peppercorns, and 8 to 10 cardamom pods. Strain and add milk and honey as per your taste. Vanilla also can be added since they come from the incredibly sensuous vanilla.
Sip the tea after a nice, spicy meal. Or you can have a warm bath with beautiful candles, sipping the tea together and see what happens!
Try tonic herbs to enhance passion
Herbalists suggest that women building passion with tonic herbs which strengthen and warm the kidneys and adrenal glands that are the seat of sexuality. Angelica, dang gui, ginseng, chaste berry or saw palmetto can be used as tinctures for these tonics. These tonics taken for three months with a break of one day per week can boost your passionate feelings.
Sex tonic for men
Ginseng, hawthorn, lemon balm, peppermint and St. John's wort can strengthen your body and regularize your blood flow. Saw palmetto increases the sperm motility and nourishes male sexual glands. Yarrow maintains health of the male sexual organs and the urinary tract. White willow relieves muscle strain.
Arouse organs with herbs
Herbs such as nettle and red clover can be used by both for a longer period for gaining a feeling of well being and emotional stability. They will also help the vaginal lubrication. Ashwaganda is a kidney nourishing botanical which builds and sustains passion in both. You can drink it daily added with milk. Shadaavari is another Indian herb which can be used with honey in order to strengthen sexual passion to the maximum.
Sex the godly elixir
Sex is not something to cause any feeling of aversion. It is the God given elixir for the well being of humanity and for its happy survival. Arouse sex with herbs. Add sweetness to life. Awake to your ecstatic paradise.
