For some ladies, being single is their choice. They have their own reasons why they decided to walk the path of singlehood and circumvent the course of marriage and parenthood. However, this is not true to some ladies. Despite their efforts to allure future husbands in their lonely life, it seems luck is not always on their side. Honestly, I have dated girls who are in this kind of dilemma. Based on my observations, below are the probable reasons why these ladies are destined to be single:
They want to be the head of the family.
Ideally, the husband should be the king and the wife should be the queen. A family with two kings cannot work effectively and will result to frictions. In the corporate world, you cannot have two presidents in one company. Some men are not interested on marrying someone who rules over them. Men prefer to be the president of the family and he prefers his wife to be her secretary or adviser. Of course, this is based on the assumption that all men are responsible individuals.They think like old maids.
A future husband cannot enter your life if you already closed your door. If you think that you will be an old maid for the rest of your life, then stop wasting your time hoping. Men date women because they are searching for future partners. If a girl keeps on saying that she is destined to be an old maid (even if it is in a form of joke) during dates, she is actually throwing her chances of finding a future husband.They are intimidating.
Men find it challenging to pursue a girl that they “perceived” to be intimidating. However, intimidation should always remain as an impression. It should be unconsciously erased in the minds of the wife-seeker after a few dates with the girl. Intimidation is like a candy wrapper, it serves as protection for that “sweet surprise”. Men expect that after opening the intimidating wrapper, a sweet and lovable candy should pop-in. If the inside candy is still intimidating, he will not eat it.They are self-centered.
The “give and take cycle” is a requisite in any relationship. This cycle of sharing and returning favors will stop flowing if all arrows are pointing to you. There is a truth to the saying that you cannot love other people if you do not know how to love yourself. Some men are not interested on marrying girls who mastered the art of loving themselves but have a hard time loving other creatures.They are so focused on their physical attributes.
Have you ever experienced receiving a gift from someone that you did not appreciate? Imagine receiving an expensive fur coat on your birthday, but how can you appreciate it if you are currently living in a tropical island? Some women spend most of their time improving their physical attributes but forget about improving their internal qualities. All men are attracted to beautiful ladies, but not all men fall in love with them. If you want men to appreciate you, do not be a fur coat in a tropical island.
Being in a relationship is a never ending process. You have to constantly communicate, compromise, trust, and love each other. If you have these basic foundations, you will be friendlier to all the wife-seekers (or husband-seekers) out there.
