An Extraordinary Love Story

Love is blind because love is unconditional.

This story was broadcast on ABC’s 20/20 Friday night. It is a story of unconditional love, devotion, and yes courage, as well as inspiring to others. As I watched the story unfold, all I can feel was admiration.

Love is a mysterious thing, and when you heard a story that is amazing as this; you must take a moment to appreciate its phenomenon. Most of us look for perfection in the opposite sex. If it is not close to perfect, he/she has to be somewhat “normal” or at least resembling ourselves.

Meet Jeremy Bowden

(Image from Kono TV)

He is a handsome ordinary young man at 6 feet, 4 inches, and 19 years old. He lost his mother to cancer at 12, and suffered attention deficit hyperactive disorder. However, he has a reputation as a ladies’ man. In his high school year, his friendship with a special classmate become closer, and he fell in love with her.

Meet Christianne Ray

(Image from Kono TV)

She is 2 feet, 9 inches, and suffers from a rare kind of dwarfism. At 19, she became pregnant. She went through doubts, frightful moments, and confusions. After telling Jeremy that she was pregnant, they both cried for an hour, and decided to go through with it.

Meet the Couple

Jeremy is Christianne’s strength in the physical sense, because Christianne cannot walk far nor lifting anything, Jeremy has to pick her up and carries her around. Christianne is Jeremy’s emotional stability because of her jolly personality. She tells it like it is!

Meet the Family

(Picture belongs to Christianne Ray)

Her baby girl was delivered by C-Section on April 4, Kryten Elise. The baby might be a dwarf too, but will be taller than her mom. As for Jeremy, he is a proud and happy father. He said having a child calms him down a lot since he has more responsibilities now. Christianne is now known as the shortest mom in the world. Her story had gone around the globe, and many people had criticized her decision to have the baby.

I am, on the other hand, looking at this story at a different angle. I found this couple’s love story is extraordinary and worth of praise. I have heard the expression “love is blind”, but I think love is just beautiful What can be more incredible when two humans just love each other for who they are, the way they are, and do not see limitations in other’s as handicap? Let’s just celebrate their love, and Happy Valentine!

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Comments (36)
#1 by SunGoddess
Feb 10, 2008
What a beautiful family! Great article, Icy.
#2 by Lucy Lockett
Feb 10, 2008
Beautiful story!
#3 by tutor1235
Feb 10, 2008
Well done-I hadn't seen the show, but you really gave it a nice recap.

Sandy
#4 by Nick Kenney
Feb 10, 2008
I wholeheartedly agree with you Icy...God bless them!
They found true love and happiness. They've set a good example for the rest of us.
#5 by valli
Feb 10, 2008
Lovely! Interesting stories Icy.
#6 by Francie
Feb 10, 2008
Wonderful Icy, what an inspirational story!
#7 by Anne Lyken-Garner
Feb 10, 2008
This is so heart warming. I'm sure that this will be on the hot content list in no time. They must really love each other.
#8 by Anne Lyken-Garner
Feb 10, 2008
Mr?Ms Carp, You've obviously never found love, how very sad.
#9 by Judy Sheldon
Feb 10, 2008
Icy, what a truly beautiful story demonstrating the meaning of love. Love looks past appearance and sees the heart. How inspiring.
#10 by Ruby Hawk
Feb 10, 2008
It is a beautiful love story. Some people live a long life and never find real love.
#11 by Amy
Feb 11, 2008
They both seem like beautiful people, but it's not as if she's physically ugly. She's quite attractive- she just comes in a small package. Somehow to me this is normal love.
#12 by Erica T Barton
Feb 11, 2008
Great story, Icy. I really like the way you wrote about it.
#13 by louie jerome
Feb 11, 2008
Great story, icy!
#14 by Alexa Gates
Feb 11, 2008
thats so cute! great story!
#15 by Missy..x
Feb 12, 2008
aww how cute!
The first picture of the girl reminds me of hilary duff for some reason though :D
x
#16 by quiet voice
Feb 12, 2008
Hi there IC,
This is quite remarkable
and very beautiful.
Thanks for sharing
with your sure fire
talent. Take care.
#17 by lanne
Feb 12, 2008
This is such a nice family. The world would truely be a better place if there were more people like this out there. Great story!!!
#18 by Liane Schmidt
Feb 13, 2008
What a lovely story.

Best wishes.

Sincerely,

-Liane Schmidt.
#19 by claudette
Feb 13, 2008
Very touching. Inspiring real life story.
#20 by IcyCucky
Feb 15, 2008
Thank you for all your comments. I am deeply grateful for your support.
#21 by Moses Ingram
Feb 18, 2008
Love is beautiful! What a wonderful story. Unconditional love is the only true love.
#22 by katie
Feb 20, 2008
I watched the show that they did on t.v. and it was SO sad when Christianne found that site that was bashing little people...herself included. I almost cried. I wish that more people would see their relationship as the writer of this blog/thing. I bet that all the people who were saying hurtful things were all closed-minded red-necks from the south who can't wrap their dingy heads around the idea of accepting differences between people. I don't know Christianne...but I feel as if we would get along.
#23 by Pat R
Feb 27, 2008
I didn't see the show but I was inspired by your post and the story. Thank you. I talk about it and linked it to my last post at An Example of Unconditional Love

#24 by Pat R
Feb 27, 2008
The link didn't show up. Here it is again:

#25 by Pat R
Feb 27, 2008
Last time - go to plain-talk-ordinary-wisdom.blogspot.com and the name of the post is "An Example of Unconditional Love".

Thank you for sharing such a beautiful story about unconditional love.
#26 by lonely
Mar 23, 2008
Wow.This is very nice story.
#27 by Dee Huff
Mar 24, 2008
Gorgeous baby. What a lovely family they are.
#28 by nobert soloria bermosa
Apr 3, 2008
wonderful,wonderful,that's a perfect example of LOVE

#29 by Shylana
Jun 11, 2008
I think their family is just beautiful. I hope that everything works out for them. And for those who were bashing her for something she had ABSOLUTELY no control over...they ought to be ashamed. People are born with non-genetic and genetic disorders all the time. Just because it's not something you're not used to gives you no right to judge. Would you say "oh it's got down syndrome, it should be put to sleep for the sake of humanity" (something that was said by Christianne on the show from the website)??? WOULD YOU???!!! I didn't think so. It's people like this beautiful family that show you no matter what, life is beautiful...and love is unconditional.
#30 by judy
Jul 6, 2008
I too saw their story on DHC just now. I was impressed by the young man's obvious love for Christianne and the baby. I wish them a happy marriage and hope the little one will be healthy as well her mom.

In response to Katie who left a comment #22, not all rednecks live in the south. That was a very unkind remark. As a southerner I resent that comment! It seems to me you are a bit closed minded yourself.
#31 by FinishSchoolMarryTHANhaveBaby
Aug 25, 2008
I have nothing against "little" people having babies, like on "Little People Big World." But if I'm not mistaken, Amy and her husband did it in the correct order: graduated school, got married, then had a baby. There is nothing admirable or inspirational about a teen couple who drops out of high school, abandons education plans, and has a baby. People act as though Jeremy and Christianne wre the first couple to ever love each other. I saw the show. She whines and acts like an adolescent. Jeremy is going to be taking care of two babies now. They both should have stayed in school, graduated, gotten jobs, married, THEN had a baby. THEN that's something to admire.
#32 by PissedOff
Sep 12, 2008
That is disgusting. That child will never be able to lead a normal life. The mother and father should be ashamed. Not to mention that it's just...disgusting.
#33 by MrsOWL
Sep 17, 2008
My nameis Lora aka MrsOWL I saw your story last nite for the first time and was Just so happy for You.. I saw were someone sent ugly things to you. on you e-mail web sight what ever DONT ever let these people get to you...You have a Love with you family that most people dont have........I"M on myspace if you would like to e-mail me back
im under MrsOWL.....
#34 by BC Doan
Sep 17, 2008
#31--Glad your life's plan works out for you!

#32--What you said tell a lot about you!

To everyone else, thank you for your comment! Life is beautiful when there are still so many beautiful souls who see beyond the surface.
#35 by heddyann
Sep 17, 2008
I agree they are very brave, but I saw the shoe too, and the poster PISSED OFF is correct, she is very whiney and hardly being a help to Jeremy by doing this. Her mom seems to help alot too.
#36 by Lefty
Oct 20, 2008
She may be short but she is HIGH maintainence chick. All that whining and "do this, do that" would drive me nuts. I'm disabled and I would be embarassed to have my wife "run jump" for me all day like that. I wish them luck though. They need it!!!
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