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Take Care of Your Queen

Women should be treated with respect. Often times today, songs, movies, and written media do not picture women favorably.

Hello, I am just an average guy. I am no expert, but I will give my opinion on a topic of importance, taking care of your Queen. What are we not teaching the male generation? Don't get me wrong, all songs on the radio do not insult women, but there are enough that do. None of the degrading songs describe the women in my life now or ever. The lyrics do not describe my grandmother, mother, sisters, and girlfriend, friends that are girls or any daughters I may father.

My grandmother is the matriarch of the family. She's my mother's mother. My father's mother died when I was a baby. My grandmother is a hard working woman, raising five kids after her husband died at the young age of 42 years. Grandma Rose did days work, cleaning white people houses. Every one of her children went to college. At 81 years old she still goes to Las Vegas with her senior citizen group. Grandma is as independent as ever. When her driver license expires, we convinced her not to renew.

My mother was an example to me of how far you can get in life working smart, not hard. Two things she always says is, "Don't settle for anything but the best, and If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for everything." My father taught me what a Queen my mother is. My grandmother is the Queen mother. There is nothing too good for the women of this family. My sisters are princess. They are not spoiled brats, but they know how to be treated. My father is the head of the family, but my mother has put out more fires and solved problems my father will never know.

My lady is a beautiful person. She's not just physically good to look at, but she is a kind caring person. She volunteers for Habit for Humanity because she thinks all people should have a nice place to live. She's a fourth grade teacher, really under paid. Angela buys extras for her class with her own money. I appreciate all that she does. I show that by opening doors for her. I pull out her chair. I surprise her with flowers, not just on Valentine Day or after a fight. After the football with the guys, we watch one of her girly movies together. Why, she's my lady, my Queen.

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Comments (2)
#1 by Liane Schmidt, Sep 23, 2008
It sounds like you have a precious "Queen" in your life! Nice article.

Blessings.

Sincerely,

-Liane Schmidt.
#2 by anonymous, Sep 25, 2008
Protect the Weaker Vessel
September 17, 2008


First Peter 3:7 says, \"Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them [wives] according to knowledge, giving honor unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.\"

When the Bible instructs husbands to protect their wives because they are the weaker vessels, this doesn\'t mean that they are inferior vessels. Let me illustrate.

Which is weaker: porcelain or steel? With porcelain you can make a beautiful cup. With steel you can make a sledge hammer to drive a spike. Which is weaker? The cup. Which is better? They can\'t be compared. The same is true of denim and silk. Which is weaker? Silk. Which is better? That depends on its use.

Men and women are not up for comparison. They are equal in God\'s eyes. But, God made us different, that He might make us one.

Ephesians 5:28 says, \"Men ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.\" According to this verse, husbands commit marital suicide if they don\'t protect their wives.

Adrian Rogers
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