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Seven Ways to Woo a Woman Properly

Wooing a woman is not a very difficult task, if only men knew how to do it properly.

Women from all over the world are no different from each other.  They want love and romance. 

Here are some methods on how to woo a woman properly:

  1. On the first meeting don’t be too fresh.

    Sometimes being too self-confident is perceived as being arrogant.  You maybe the best-looking man in the face of the earth but if you act like one, this is a major turn off for women.  Arrogant men are not well liked - even as friends - much more as lovers.
  2. Be a gentleman.

     Contrary to popular belief, women still want to be “pampered” and be treated like a “Queen”.  Opening doors and pulling a chair for her is never outdated. It shows you consider her special enough to treat her good.
  3. Be thoughtful and expressive of your feelings. 

    It’s true that action speaks louder than words but saying “I love you”, is still the best way to show how much you love her.  Spoken words, coupled with loving actions are explosive combinations, almost always the woman will “listen”.
  4. Little things mean a lot. 

    Those letters or notes tucked into her book; those red roses given even when there are no special occasions; those e-cards saying how much you love her, are small little things that can melt a woman’s heart. 
  5. Make time for her family, especially her mom and dad. 

    Be truly interested in her family.  When you “love” her family, it shows you care for those she cares about and that would give you additional points in her heart. 
  6. Never forget any important dates, like her birthday, her graduation day, etc. 

    This may seem trivial but I heard women being touched by a man’s remembrance of their birthdays and graduation days.
  7. Listen when she speaks. 

    Women (and even men, for that matter) want men to listen when they say something.  It shows that you care about her thoughts, concepts and beliefs and that you are not one insensitive person.

    These are not phenomenal and uncommon methods, but at times we need to be reminded that the simple, little things that we oftentimes ignore are the ones that are actually very significant. 

    So keep these seven methods in mind and be successful in wooing the woman of your dreams!

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    Comments (6)
    #1 by tashabud, Sep 29, 2008
    Wow! These are all excellent tips. I hope more men see this article. So then more women out will be happier.
    #2 by Sumit, Sep 29, 2008
    Great words. Hope guys will read the points and follow and enjoy the fuirts.
    #3 by Liane Schmidt, Sep 29, 2008
    Nice article - keep up the great work!

    Blessings.

    Sincerely,

    -Liane Schmidt.
    #4 by Dan the Man, Oct 1, 2008
    Here is what worked for me.

    Act like you genuinely care or interested about aspects of her life, i.e. job, family, interests etc...

    Make her laugh

    Act like you agree with approx 80 percent of what she say, the other 20 percent will make you not look like a push over.

    Listen, this is the hardest, but you can recall facts later and it make you appear caring.
    #5 by statesf10, Oct 16, 2008
    ...above all...just be yourself, ok.
    #6 by Helen, Nov 23, 2008
    8. Have a good job. No matter how non-materialistic or independent she claims to be, not having money is a major turn-off - especially if she is over the age of 25.
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