First, you have to decide upon the personality you want to have.
Don't try imitate movie stars, friends, school chums or the like. You have to be you. Choose a personality that is easy to maintain and does not require a lot of energy to maintain over you entire life. You can vary it to suit differing situations but get a basic model and stick to it.
Be a blank slate as much as possible because it makes it easier for girls to project onto you whatever they think they like in a man. Besides a low key quiet tone is easy to maintain throughout life. You can always emote later.
Practice listening to girls and what they are saying
Seriously, listen.
Read up on women if you have to. Girl magazines are good start. This is like hunting, check the box scores or cramming for an exam. Find out as much as you can, study the object of your soon to be love; place yourself in the woman place.
Be a woman for a day in your mind
Here's something you can do. Ask some girl for her entire routine for a week. Great conversation opener and besides this be writing it down and mysteriously mention that you are writing a book.
Find out what a woman's routine might be. Up in the morning and makeup and moisturizing cream, skirt, dress, school, dates and old boy friends. Talking on the cell phone. Go through the whole routine.
Don't forget the kissing and the sex find out what she thinks about those. Gently don't be fool obvious.
Watch that Pretty Woman movie over and over again until you understand everything that is going on in that movie. And take seriously what you learn.
So, in short be interested or at least understand what a woman's world is like and be prepared not to talk about it but to listen about it knowledgeably. Again, be a good listener and learn. You need to learn what the world is like for a women. Common sense, no?
Be well groomed.
You might like the scruffy beard. They don't. Brush your teeth. Clean that filthy apartment, drop the Wing Men; this is a solo trip. So, too, look to your hair and nails.
Clean up, but don't get gay about it. Ask another woman to help out with your clothes and appearance. Understand you don't have a clue about this stuff. Women know, so listen. Don't resist. You don't have anything to protect against.
Now you have to be in good shape. Go to the gym, they do. The balloon belly ain't cute and to her you look like a heart attack at 50 and a lot of medical bills she will have to pay after you are dead. And don't let down on this. You will need that body to 86, so think life long-gym.
In laws are king. (if you get that far)
Send mom roses praising her for how she has raised daughter and ask advice from Dad about anything, if you get that far.
Do party too much and learn to get a sense of humor. If you don't have one, do like the rest of us and memorize a few good jokes and call them your all time favorites--if they make the girls laugh. Forget the crude and the sexual stuff. Don't be an idiot. How would you like someone making fun of your private part as a joke? To women crude jokes about sex is just like that. Got it? (We will get to sex later)
Now let's see where we are:
We have studied somewhat, learned about the object of our desires, we have groomed up a bit to be presentable; we have looked to our bodies, we have improved somewhat our minds, we have decided to take our careers seriously (women like two kinds of men, the dangerous ones and the safe ones you can provide. Decide which type you are and stick to it.
By the way drop the Ego is Me stuff. It only attracts the naïve ones' who soon wise up and show you the door as soon as Mr. Security shows up.
Learn to make love not sex.
Some women are looking for sex but you can attract some women that way but we are here playing for keeps and we need to know a lot more that just planting the flag so to speak. We're here to stay; to colonize, plant wheat fields you know what I mean.
Beside if you are really into sex and want to have it last forever with that girl of your dreams you have to understand that you have to be good at it.
