Why are younger men dating and/or enticed by older women? This question has been perplexing to women for decades and it is time to tackle this phenomenon. The average decent woman asks herself after she is past the thirty something mark and heading toward forty, how do you keep yourself looking good and more appealing? This topic has also been up for debate since few women actually find time to discuss the topic seriously. Yet in tackling the answers, one would want to know what should a female do? In answering this question, I have come up with a few tips which I hope will be helpful to women around the world.
- The first tip for a woman whom is approaching her thirties is to definitely be well grounded her spirituality. I put God above everything in my life. He can fulfill all the little inconsistencies and all gaps. Meaning, whatever you are not, he can make you into whatever he wants. Pray consistently, all the time.
- The next tip is to have a positive self image of yourself and what you want others to perceive from you. Ask yourself, "What do I want people to perceive of me when they meet me? Once you determine that, then you should do what is needed to complement the image you want to project.
- The next thing you should do is keep your hair, nails and body clean. Take extra time to pamper yourself. Mind you, if you can't afford to do so, do it yourself. That's what women did back in the day. Keep your skin moisturized, eat healthy, and drink plenty of water. You should also exercise three times a week.
- Another good tip is to stay up to date with the latest styles. Pay close attention to what the" in" styles are. Notice the mannequins in the stores and pick your style from there. Select the aspects of the current style that are appropriate for you. Always think positively and feel beautiful. Take this advice and you will look years younger.
So, getting back to the main point. What keeps younger men wanting to date older women? Well, an older woman is more mature. She's not playing shanigans, or games. She pretty much knows what she wants and she's more confident. If she really takes care of herself, than she is more appealing. Younger women today or more whiners. They are caught up in the hype of what's new without any foundation. Younger men today are more mature than before. And face it; dating an older woman strokes the ole male ego. They want someone that ages gracefully. Not a mother figure, although most men marry or date women more like their mothers. So take my advice and keep yourself up older women! The younger men are watching!
