Many people sit and think for hours on how to break up with there boyfriend or girlfriend so i came up with these easy smart tips that may help you. Believe me they work, most couples end up still being friends if they use these tips and ideas.
- Don't act so nervous about it, it makes them think you're making a mistake and they can tell in your voice what your about to do. Just keep cool.
- You may not have to tell them the exact reason why you're breaking up with them. Believe me if it's for another person then dont say that, it really is not necissary and will just hurt there feelings. Don't straight out lie to them, if they bring that up and yes tell the truth, but don't bring it up.
- If you just don't want to be there boyfriend or girlfriend anymore, and don't know how to say it, either be honest or just say you thought you were much more comfortable as friends, and maybe you would like to try it out again. Assure them that if you still have feelings for each other you may get back together, that always makes them feel better.
- Don't laugh when your breaking up with them, its just not cool, and it makes them think your happy to break up with them. Just like i said...keep cool, but dont take it overboard, remember you are breaking someones heart.
- Try not to rip out there heart and stomp on it, dont be cruel. Be as nice as possible and tell them you care about them, you just need time. Don't make them feel unloved, that makes it hard to be friends again. Remember how it felt when someone dumped you?
- A good excuse is that you need to focus in school. That way, their feelings aren't hurt and your happy.
- When you see them again, don't completely ignore them, its not a good way to start out the friendship. Be a good friend, be their best friend. But don't be all over them, because that will give them the wrong idea, and friends with benefits really isn't the best idea, it will just lead to getting back together.
- If they ask you to go to the movies after you've broken up or something, make sure you invite lots of friends and make it a group date, that way you won't feel uncomfortable and they wont be totally focused on their feelings for you.
- Do not go out with someone the next day, believe me your ex will find out and hate you and that person. It just causes drama, if you want to be with someone else then just be patient, don't rush into it. And if you really feel like your ready, just don't rub it in your ex's face, dont be all over your new bf/gf because it will just kill them inside.
FOLLOW THESE TIPS AND HOPEFULLY ALL GOES WELL.
