Five useful kissing tips for guys whether it's your first or not.
Place one hand on her back and the other on her hip.
Kissing is not always about tongue and lip action. Positioning your body correctly can be just as important. Doing this would provide a greater sense of intimacy and allows you to control the pace and intensity of the kiss.
Grip her bottom lip.
During a kiss the guy would usually grip the girl's bottom lip and the girl would grip the guy's top lip. However, this can be interchangeable and doing so can create a greater sense of passion and intimacy. Remember to be firm but gentle when kissing, and prevent from sucking or biting her lip unless you wanted to experiment with other techniques.
Keep your eyes closed.
Kissing with your eyes open almost completely ruins the moment. Closing them would allow you to fully embrace the kiss and feel much more intimate with your partner. Not to mention that kissing with your eyes open is just plain awkward.
When French kissing don't stick your entire tongue in her mouth.
The point of French kissing is not to see how far you can stick your tongue in the other person. It is simply a more intense form of kissing. As a result merely glancing at your partner's tongue with the tip of your's is much more effective. Also sticking your tongue too far can cause your partner to gag which is definitely not pleasing.
Don't be sloppy.
Exchanging saliva during a kiss is a certain fact, but exchanging too much saliva and it would seem as if you're drooling on her. Kissing mainly concerns the physical interaction between two people's lips and the emotional satisfaction gained from it. So when kissing, try not to be too generous.
